Sunday, July 30, 2006
u are sucha B*TCH! lousy bugger. BU YAO LIAN! tsk tsk tsk *rolls eyes.
i danced with the musique
at 7:59 PM
Friday, July 28, 2006
In the beginning, infatuation (or a crush) and love feel exactly the same.
We feel like our hearts are opening up for the first time and being around the person of our choice feels just like magic, like someone has cast a spell on us and that the world fades away in the presence of our beloved.
Colors are brighter, birds sing more sweetly and happiness overwhelms us. This is wonderful news when it happens.
Unfortunately, the down side is that these feelings of being inebriated on love do not last for very long. Once they fade, people are disappointed that they no longer feel the crush or infatuation to the intensity that they did before; they therefore feel they have fallen "out of love."
Actually, this is where love begins and infatuation ends.
Real love means understanding and sharing with our loved ones as deeply as possible.
Real love is the total acceptance of another human being with all their flaws, and believe me, we all have them.
Real love means letting go of all pretense, fantasy, expectations that our lover will be perfect and that we will never feel negatively and get angry at them. This is pure nonsense.
The problem that most teenagers have is that once this infatuated feeling dies, they don't have the understanding to let the love pass into the next stage which is more like the one I just described and, while it doesn't seem as exciting anymore, it is replaced by a feeling of security and completeness which is marvelous and comforting, safe and loving.
As far as your first concern: all real love is based on mutual respect, admiration and concern with each others well-being.
Having said that, equality is the only way!
Now this doesn't mean that we all always feel equal in our feelings.
Sometimes, one person in a relationship will feel closer and the other more distant but, overall, people in close relationships should feel equally close and equally loving.
They should feel the complete safety to be wholly themselves and they should feel that, while they could probably survive life on their own, having this particular person enhances their sense of why they have been put on this planet!
Remember, nothing else matters without love.
As the Beatles have said: "Love is all you really need!"
i danced with the musique
at 2:52 PM
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.
~Anonymous
i danced with the musique
at 2:39 PM
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
HELLO ALL! :x WHOOPSIES
Been a long long time since i last blogged. Anyways the monster is doing fine. Enjoying my life shopping everyday, right Euson? Wahahaha. Got myself like almost four pairs of jeans, outta which i like 1 of them only. Might prolly get rid of others online ;/ And more than five tops.
I`m in the school's lab for Geography lesson. I`m multitasking lurhs, blogging and doing online tourism worksheet. i have Math remedial after school till three ten!
Gosh i can`t wait to go home and have a warm shower. It has been raining day in day out last few days. After which im going shopping with Euson and his mom.(: i love his family members, they are such nice people.
Mom wants me to go for some tuition. LALA-ABIBABA.
I felt rather depressed few days back. JUST BECAUSE HE IS RICH?!?!?!?!? ARGH. HEARTBROKEN. sorry but reverse psychology don`t work on me! *Hurmps.
Elder brother is serving national service now. Will be out only on the twenty first. Glad that he is doing fine! I miss him so much!! But i miss Iona more :X whoops.
Okie dokie, shall stop for now. Will update very soon. Hmmmmmmmm maybe with loadsa piccas!
i danced with the musique
at 1:06 PM
